Start over


Starting over is one of the most beautiful experiences in life. It shows that one is ready to let go of the past, and is also ready for the future. Starting something, shows that you’re ready. And being ready isn’t easy. 

What does one essentially do by starting over? Well let’s take an example of a new driver who had a minor road accident. That individual, already being new at it, would stop driving and feel demotivated. That individual would be deemed a failure, unless they choose to start over - that is learn from the past accident, let go of that bad memory, and start driving again with a new responsibility and eventually become a great driver. 

In the same way, starting over is immensely important in the personal life of individuals too. You might reach the lowest of your lows, but the very nights and experiences that haunt you- the same nights, you’ll look back at them with a smile if you just choose to start over, as those depressing nights will be the reason to your success now.

Starting over doesn’t guarantee success. But the consistency in starting over does. The former driver might face a road accident again, but in no means should he/she stop there. The world is full of opportunities, relationships, and it’s just a huge ocean with a variety of experiences that one possibly can’t experience all in one life time. So might as well attempt to, with the art of starting over.

Right from failing an exam to having your heartbroken, take this as your sign to start over. It’s never too late to start over, and remember, these experiences only make the day you achieve your goals, even sweeter!

Forget the former things, do not dwell on the past, See I am doing a new thing! Isaiah 43:18-19

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